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First he stole my heart, then he stole my home

  • Red Flag
  • Mar 5
  • 5 min read

Updated: Mar 17

After years of trying to hold it together, I finally decided to move. It had been a few years since my husband died, and the house felt more like a museum than a home. His shirts were still folded in the closet the way he left them. His spot on the couch? Permanently dented. And no matter how many times I aired the place out, it still smelled faintly like his cologne. Sweet, but also… haunting.


Letting go wasn’t easy, but I knew it was time for a fresh start. So, I found a new place — big, slightly outdated, but full of potential. The walls were this awful yellow, and the kitchen looked like it was straight out of a 1980s sitcom. But nothing a good renovation couldn’t fix. My husband and I had flipped a few houses before, so I knew the drill. I wasn’t some clueless homeowner — I read reviews, checked references, did my homework. I wasn’t the kind of woman who skipped the fine print.


When it came to finding a contractor, I was meticulous. I cross-checked licenses, scoured forums, even called a few past clients directly. That’s how I found Steve. His building company had glowing reviews, solid paperwork, and a professional-looking website. I checked it all — the business registration, the contracts, the insurance. It was airtight. He had experience with older homes, and the people who had worked with him swore he was honest, hardworking, and reliable.


When I met him, I was impressed. Early 40s, rugged, the kind of guy who probably knew his way around a toolbox. He was confident without being cocky and surprisingly easy to talk to. He asked about my kids, about my plans for the house, and about how I was adjusting after my husband’s death, something I had told him in the process of meeting. He didn’t pry — he just listened. And after months of feeling like I was handling everything alone, it was nice to have someone actually listen.


It felt like I’d found the right person for the job.


Steve started working on the house, and pretty quickly, he became part of my daily life. He was always there. Mornings, afternoons, late into the night. I’d get home from work, and he’d already be there, sleeves rolled up, wiping sweat from his forehead like some kind of home-improvement fantasy. He started helping with things that had nothing to do with the renovation — fixing a leaky faucet, bringing in my groceries, clearing leaves out of the pool. I’d come downstairs in the morning, and there he’d be, holding two coffees like it was the most natural thing in the world.


We started eating dinner together sometimes. He’d sit across from me at the scratched-up dining table, smiling over takeout containers. He was easy to be around — steady, grounded. And when he touched my hand — just a brush of his fingers at first, then longer, more deliberate — I didn’t pull away. I let him in. I told myself it was fine. He made me feel safe, and I hadn’t felt safe in a long time.


And then one day, I came home — and my house was gone.


At first, I thought I was imagining it. I stood on the front step, key in hand, trying to figure out why the door wasn’t there. Just an empty frame. I stepped inside, heart hammering in my chest — and that’s when I saw it.


No doors. No locks. No kitchen. The cabinets were gone — ripped from the walls, jagged screws still poking out like open wounds. The countertops were missing. The fixtures were gone. Even the skirting boards — the damn skirting boards — had been stripped away. The house was… empty. A hollowed-out shell.


I stumbled through the rooms, disoriented, like I’d walked into someone else’s nightmare. The bedrooms were torn apart. The bathrooms? Bare pipes sticking out of the walls. Even the underground plumbing had been pulled up. There were loose wires hanging from the ceiling. The floorboards creaked beneath my feet, raw and splintered.


My hands were shaking so badly I could barely hold my phone as I dialed Steve’s number.


Voicemail.

I called again.

Voicemail.

Again.

Voicemail.


I sat down in the middle of what used to be my living room and stared at the floor. The emptiness pressed down on me, a suffocating weight in my chest. Steve had gutted my house. He had gutted my life.

 

Panic kicked in. I started digging into his business records, and that’s when I realised I’d been played. His building license? Fake. The reviews? Fabricated. Steve was a professional con artist. His specialty? Widows and divorcées.


He’d get close, take their money, strip their houses to the bones, and vanish.


I called the police, and the minute I said his name, their faces darkened. They knew him. He had a record — fraud, theft — but somehow, he was still out there ruining lives.


I was livid. I went full scorched-earth. Blasted his name and face all over social media, neighborhood groups — everywhere. That’s when the messages started rolling in. Other women. Other victims. Even his own mother.


And then Rob showed up.


Rob messaged me directly. He said he knew Steve — had been tracking him for years. He told me he’d helped women like me before — women left in ruins after Steve’s scams. He offered to come by and see what could be salvaged. At that point, I was drowning. So yeah — I grabbed the lifeline.


Rob was everything Steve wasn’t. Calm, patient, the kind of guy who actually showed up when he said he would. He started fixing the house. He refused to take money for labour, just materials. He started to rebuild our lives, one tile at a time. Made me feel like maybe — just maybe — someone had my back for once.


Then he started asking for money.


Small things at first — supplies, tools — nothing crazy. Then it got bigger. He said he was turning down paid jobs to help me, that he just wanted to see the project through. And honestly? He had already done so much. How could I say no?


So I handed over some money, enough to pay for the materials needed to get back out main areas to liveable.


Next day?


Gone.

Blocked.

Vanished.


Turns out, Rob and Steve were partners. This was their whole game — Steve would destroy everything, Rob would swoop in and play the hero, and together they’d clean you out - again. They didn’t just steal my house — they stole my trust. My faith in humanity.


And the worst part? I wasn’t their first victim and I won't be their last.


 
 
 

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Polly
Mar 14
Rated 5 out of 5 stars.

People are actually so fu**ed.

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